What Direction is Your Inner Compass Pointed?
By Nina Atwood
Some situations in life you cannot control, but during those that you can, self-inflicted situations we’ll call them, how do you handle yourself? Do you listen to your inner compass? Our bodies can pick up emotional energy from other people, and the whole field of emotional intelligence has shown us that there’s a reason that we have a feeling known as intuition- knowing what kind of situations and people are good or bad for us. So as you move through life, listen to that instinct.
Some people ask me why it’s so important to not drink alcohol on the first few dates with someone new. There’s nothing wrong with alcohol, but when you choose to do that with someone who is brand new, alcohol numbs your ability to determine if someone is going to be a positive or negative influence on your life. Your natural intuition is inhibited when you are drinking, therefore your bulls**t meter can be severely hampered.
This show explores why developing your inner compass is invaluable and how to avoid looking needy, when you are in fact, intentional in dating. And, when the dating pond is dry, how do you find others who are marriage-minded? Desperation is easily picked up, so what are the unconscious messages you’re sending that others pick up? What is being needy versus being intentional? Click here to listen to the show.
Entry Filed under: Advice for Men,Advice for Women,Dating,Personal Growth,Relationships
1 Comment
1. Mark - Wealth Coach | December 11th, 2010 at 11:19 am
I think it is always suggestive to be honest with yourself on this one. Gratitude and appreciation are some other qualities. Also, I think dating doesn’t have to be difficult. It is all that make the mess in your relation. So I would suggest to follow with your head than with your heart. 🙂