Turning on the Power of Attraction: Step 2
By Nina Atwood
Create a fulfilling life now. The key to being relaxed about the timing of love is to be generally content with life, now. If you want to own a home, buy it. If you crave a European vacation, take it. If you want that degree you didn’t finish, complete it. If you want more money, figure out how to earn it. Start that business, go to that spa. In short, live now, be present in your life, enjoy life for exactly what it is.
Healthy, balanced people are drawn to others who have their lives together. No one wants a person who’s postponing life, waiting for it to magically start when someone enters the picture. That’s way too much pressure on the person entering the picture – that somehow he or she will be expected to make your life good when it wasn’t that great before he or she arrived.
One of the best books written on this subject is The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. I highly recommend it for examining your basic orientation to life: from focusing on the past or future to being present now.
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